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Why Can’t My Spouse or Ex-Spouse Recognize Our Child’s Video Gaming Addiction?
As a coach, I hear from many parents who share with me how frustrated they are because their spouse, boyfriend, or partner refuses to acknowledge that their child has a video gaming addiction. And I understand their grievances for a couple reasons. Number one,...
Conversations With Jake; Inside the Mind of a Video Gaming Addict
My first book, titled Seeing Through the Cracks, was written to help parents through the transition between parenting your child and parenting your adult child. I found this period of time challenging. From ages zero to eighteen our children fit into our lives. And...
How Do I Know If My Child Is addicted to Video Gaming?
This is a difficult time for many as we self isolate through the COVID19 pandemic. I am using this time at home to write my second book. My son has graciously agreed to participate in recorded interviews with me, answering many questions. The first half of my book, I...
Why Is My Compulsive Video Gamer Resistant to School Learning?
I was an overly involved parent with my sons. My second born required more advocacy from me, especially with school, than my first born did. While my eldest son thrived in a school environment, for the most part, my youngest son struggled and was miserable for much of...
Unplugged: A Change Is As Good As A Rest
I recently spent a week in the Caribbean at a resort. I had planned, before leaving on this trip, that I would unplug from the internet and be present in every moment of my vacation. I didn’t post a check in at the airport to let others know where I was going and I...
Jan. 2020- Interview with Dr. Elizabeth Milovidov, from Digital Parenting
Here's my interview with Dr. Elizabeth Milovidov, from Digital Parenting, on Video Gaming Addiction, that we did connecting via Paris, France and Guelph, Ontario, CA
Video Gaming Addiction; How Coaching Can Help Struggling Parents
Top executives rely on business coaches to keep them accountable and to learn new strategies in their work. Top paid athletes have coaches to guide them through their physical and mental game. Professional singers have coaches who provide them the techniques to keep...
Video Gaming Addiction – Help for Parents
Last week Twitter sent me a notification in my online feed that my son had Tweeted something, for the first time in a while, and attached the quote of that tweet. He so rarely engages in social media postings, so I was naturally curious. Without quoting the entire...
Children Are Making Purchases Within Video Games: A Parent’s Guide To Protecting Their Finances
Lately, I have been hearing more alarming stories of parents discovering large amounts being charged to their credit card by their child, as a result of their video gaming spending. Most times these parents were unaware of the purchases and are caught off guard when...
Does Your Child’s Insatiable Need for Technology Challenge Your Parenting Values?
It’s nearing the time for kids to head back to school. Summer can be a time to let down our guard and get more relaxed with parenting. There’s many hours to fill and sometimes just letting technology babysit our children gives parents some time for themselves. For our...
Setting Up Your Adult Child for Success in Addiction Recovery
My son is now twenty-three years old. He’s been in video gaming addiction recovery now for two years. He hasn’t played a video game in twenty-five months. As his parent, I should feel complete relief. But I don’t. There is always an element of terror in the far...
Grandparents: How Can They Regulate Technology with Grandchildren?
I recently gave a talk on Video Gaming Addiction to a room of many grandfathers. I had never considered reaching out to this audience until I was approached and asked. And I’m so happy that I agreed to address them and share my family’s story. We need as many support...










