Book- Cyber Sober

Cyber Sober

A Caregiver’s Guide to Video Gaming Addiction

Written by Elaine Uskoski

Exploring the mind of a video gaming addict, Elaine’s second book guides the reader through the journey of her son’s addictive disorder and recovery. The story unfolds along the nine signs of gaming disorder and the five stages of addiction, weaving toward the recovery stage, including candid and insightful interviews with her son, Jake.

Elaine calls upon the advice of experts to support her message that there is no easy way to survive video gaming addiction or any other addiction’s withdrawal and recovery. It takes a lot of time, patience, Herculean strength, and enormous support from others, including family, friends, and professional therapy. But it is possible to detox from this compulsion. It is possible to reach the stage of recovery. And it is worth moving through the pain to arrive at the other side, more fully alive.

This book is available Feb. 6, 2021

Video game addiction is a real condition that is only recently starting to be recognized as real and serious. Elaine & Jake’s story of addiction and recovery is one everybody should read. Jake is extremely candid about his experience getting addicted to video games and about the recovery process, which Elaine documents with no holds barred. Through relapses and recovery, and without the resources other behavioral addictions have, Elaine coaches her son from the brink of death back to a healthy, productive life. Along the way, she also interviews mental health experts and video game addiction specialists. But she is not anti-gaming; like any hobby, it just can be over-indulged, and that’s what she is trying to educate people about. She also touches on how the ratings system in North America isn’t as sufficient as it should be, the dangers of loot-boxes and microtransactions, and how the recovery and treatment industry is growing in the wake of official international recognition of the disease. I highly recommend anybody who knows a gamer read this. It could save a life.

Jed Shaffer

Gamer Parent Strategy Guide Podcast

Thought-provoking, emotionally moving, informative and triumphant, Uskoski’s guide explains the shocking world of Video Gaming Addiction through the lens of a mother and her heroic efforts to save her son from his harmful addiction.

Cindy Rescorl


Raw, heartbreaking, and heart-warming. this story takes you on a roller coaster of emotions into and out of the depths of gaming.

Michelle Nogueira

Addiction Problem Gambling and Technology Overuse Counselor, Homewood Health Centre